relationships

Yes, Even Intimacy Needs Boundaries

Posted on 06 January 2009

thelineWhen my husband and I had been married for two years, a single girlfriend of mine (we’ll call her Macy) asked me a very personal question.

Macy’s personality was that of a desperate chameleon, a toxic mixture of trying to be what she thought the man she dated wanted her to be, and, approaching the age of twenty-five, feeling pressure to get married.

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culture

New Year’s Resolutions: An Arbitrary Time for Change

Posted on 05 January 2009

2009I personally am not a fan of new Years Resolutions. I like making an effort to better myself in the new year, but the whole making lofty goals and having a deadline for making said goals just bothers me. Maybe it is because I’m still under the delusion that I’m a non-conformist, but I just don’t get the draw.

I agree that the start of a new year is a great time to put things in perspective and to be all introspective. Maybe I’m just a chronic over thinker or just too cynical, but why do we wait until the beginning of the year to implement things to better ourselves?

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holidays

Are New Year’s Resolutions Worth It?

Posted on 05 January 2009

2009bNew Year’s has come and passed, and 2009 has begun. With it will come new gym memberships, crazy diets and other various resolutions.

The New Year is a period of rebirth, and for many it symbolizes a time of renewal and recommitment. Most people make resolutions of sort or another, with many focused on getting in shape, achieving a goal at work or making more money.

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culturefeast

Top 12 CF Articles of 2008

Posted on 01 January 2009

obama-and-clintonOn behalf of the CultureFeast writers, Happy New Year! May this be one you never forget, as you leap frog into greater depths of personal growth and wholeness.

I won’t speak for you, but 2008 was an interesting year for us. We started off the year with a bang, pumping out two, sometimes three posts per day. Many new writers joined our little experiment last January. We cut production back to one a day halfway through the year when our staff shrank due to life circumstances.

Our writers contribute their thoughts and perspectives because they have something to say, and if it helps their career in the process, what’s the harm in that, right?

Let’s take a quick look back at the twelve most popular articles of 2008 as well as a few other interesting things, as we say goodbye to that which has gone before, and we look forward to having the best year we’ve ever had.

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music

Music Review: Brandy’s New Album, Human

Posted on 31 December 2008

brandy-humanAfter a 4 year hiatus, Brandy is back with her 5th studio album, Human. It’s an extremely personal effort that sounds like entries ripped from the singer’s diary.  Brandy fans will be happy to hear that her voice has matured and rides the beat effortlessly as she sings of love, hope and new beginnings. Human has Brandy linking back up with producer Rodney Jerkins on several songs including the title track “Human”, in which the singer urges listeners to embrace her flaws and all.

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culture

Facebook Says Public Breastfeeding is Obscene

Posted on 30 December 2008

nofacebookIs public breastfeeding really obscene? Facebook seems to think so. At least, posting photos of nursing your child can get you removed from Facebook altogether. AllFacebook.com reported Monday that Facebook warned user Heather Farley to remove a photo of her breastfeeding her child. Farley emailed Facebook requesting an explanation.

“When Facebook didn’t respond to Farley’s email, she posted another photo and was threatened by Facebook to have her account deleted. This is when things got ugly—for Facebook, at least. Once Farley went public with her complaint against Facebook, stating that she felt bullied. So she protested.”

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Guest Blogger, fashion

Fur Fashion Dilemmas: Sustainable Product or Animal Cruelty?

Posted on 29 December 2008

sealOver the past twenty years, the wearing of fur has provoked some hot debate, with PETA often leading the assault against fur farmers and fur wearers alike. SO it’s no surprise to learn that PETA recently launched an attack on none other than Ms. Elizabeth Hurley, British actress and the new face of American fur house Blackglama.

The photographs of Hurley, many of which feature the actress clad in nothing but her own skin and a fur coat, have sparked much controversy and induced continued debate about the wearing of fur. PETA’s anti-fur stance is well known. During the 1990s, campaigns such as PETA’s ‘I’d rather go naked than wear fur’ brought the ethical issues with fur production well and truly into the public consciousness. Subsequently, the wearing and production of fur and other controversial animal products such as sealskin fell out of favor. But recently there seems to have been a turning of the tables. Fur farmers, fashionistas and fur fans alike have begun to hit back with a new angle, claiming that fur is environmentally friendly and sustainable, and as such should be seen as an acceptable clothing choice.

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Gary Karbon, Michael Callaway, politics, writing

With a Name like Blagojevich, He Has to be Good

Posted on 28 December 2008

blagojevichrodSure, Rod Blagojevich may have tried to sell Barack Obama’s Senate seat to the highest bidder and I do not doubt that he and his wife are foul mouthed people.  However, despite all of that, I think he should stay on has governor of Illinois and continue to serve the people who elected him, twice.

Now, some of you ninnies out there may say, “Hey, he is corrupt, he must go.”  Sure he is corrupt, but he has a keen economic mind and in these tough times that is what we need.  He was able to look at the situation he was in and realize that the thing that he had was worth a lot of money to someone that simply just give it away was foolish.  That is an economic genius at work people!

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Daniel Dessinger, holidays, music

Forget Hallmark This Christmas: Make Your Own Greeting Cards

Posted on 24 December 2008

christmascardNothing says Merry Christmas like a prepackaged card that says nothing personal but a signature and a “Merry Christmas”. C’mon, people! You can do better than that!

Okay, I won’t judge you if you buy Hallmark cards. But I WILL tell you that I am never touched by professional greeting cards and what they say. Only the cards from loved ones who actually write actual notes inside are kept longer than a week.

I know it’s last minute, but these won’t take you very long, and they’ll warm the hearts of those you love.

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Rachel Longo-Tosoian, shopping

Avoiding the Big-Box Shopping this Christmas

Posted on 24 December 2008

As someone who loves shopping and going to the mall, you would never take me as the person to say that I would much rather do my Christmas shopping in small-town Ontario.

Every year for Christmas, my best friend and I make the trek to Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario to do the bulk of our Christmas shopping. What is so special about NOTL is that it is a very small and quaint area, filled with Canadian history and tradition. The shops in the downtown core are unique and filled with things you would never find at a mall or outlet store.

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